Are you a head type? The majority of my clients are head types, also known as type A personality. They spend most of their days on the computer, in offices and in and out of meetings. The head type personality dominates our culture and in fact, is looked at as Read more…
Don’t take it personally. Trust me, I understand. It can be frustrating when you are in the throws of orgasmic bliss and your partner just isn’t there with you. I’ve been there myself and I know it can be hard not to take it personally. But, as soon as I Read more…
Is erectile dysfunction getting you down? It doesn’t have to! I want to debunk another myth that our culture likes to throw around. The myth that men must be rock hard and stay that way whenever they get aroused. I find that this myth has done a lot of damage Read more…
“Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgementally” John Kabatt-Zinn In my practice I see many people who have a goal oriented approach to sex. This approach shows up in the way they approach sex with their partners as well as with Read more…
5 Steps to Female Ejaculation In my many years of teaching female ejaculation workshops I have found that there are a few vital components in making this mysterious, elusive and ultimately pleasurable part of female sexuality a reality. The main question I get is “can every woman ejaculate”? And my Read more…
First of all, what the heck is a bio-hack? A bio-hack is using systems to improve the quality of your life and freedom in your body and mind. These systems can range from diet to exercise to positive affirmations – basically anything beneficial that changes your body chemistry from a Read more…
I have learned from working with hundreds of people that low libido is the bodies natural response to stressors that are going on with the individual or in the relationship. We don’t want to do something that causes pain, displeasure, can be boring, feels unsafe, causes frustration, is mechanical or Read more…
Are you and your partner in a struggle between, “I just want to have sex” and, “I just want to sleep”? Maybe you have small kids, run a household while maintaining a full-time job, have financial obligations that are mounting and are attempting to spend time together as a couple enjoying Read more…
Erotic Massage can turn around the most tired and boring sex lives! Many of the couples I work with have been together for a long time and have full-time jobs, kids, long commutes and modern-day stressors. They report being too tired to have anything but boring sex. When I say Read more…
In order to have a vital, satisfying sex life we need to have a healthy mind-body connection. What does that mean? What we put into our bodies, the health of our relationships, and how we view ourselves in relation to the world all need to be taken into consideration. Sometimes, Read more…
The Art of Receiving is a wonderful practice that can help to liberate a woman’s sense of self and boost her self-esteem. As women, we often hear compliments and let them fly over our heads, in one ear and out the other or simply nod and say, “uh huh thanks”. Read more…
Who isn’t stressed in this modern world? We all take on a lot of responsibilities and it’s no wonder sometimes our sex lives take a back burner when the mounting world of “adulting” comes first! With so many people to care for and so many ways in which we put Read more…
I had a panel of Sexologists and one Doctor join me for a wonderful discussion about Female Ejaculation at Oakland’s local sex toy shop: Feelmore510. Madison Young, Dr. Ari Zadel, Pavini Moray and I dove into the subject of Female Ejaculation and had a lot of fun discussing the controversy. As Sexologists, we Read more…
In the history of female sexuality research, there has been a lot of discussion about clitoral and vaginal orgasms resulting in controversy within the medical, therapeutic and sexological fields of study. A theory was proposed in 1905 by Sigmund Freud indicating a difference between an immature and a mature orgasm. Read more…
