Kinky Erotic Massage for Lovers Memorial Day Weekend May 22,23,24 in San Francisco


Have you always wanted to give your lover a mind-blowing erotic massage?

Does the thought of being in a weekend immersion learning exciting kinky erotic massage techniques sound amazing?

Is it your deepest desire to keep it hot and spicy in the bedroom and continue to turn your lover on with new skills?

Then this weekend immersion is for you!

Ideal for couples wanting to add variation to their intimate play, find ways to connect deeply, spice it up & have sexy, erotic fun together.

In this weekend immersion you will learn:

  1. Silky skin to skin contact: Basic Swedish massage strokes from featherlight to firm pressure
  2. Body to body flow using warm oils
  3. How to heighten Sensation: Using silks, furs, various textures, hot and cold temperatures, sound and sensory deprivation
  4. How to effectively communicate what kind of touch you need and desire from your lover
  5. Amazing genital massage techniques to incorporate into an erotic massage
  6. How to play with light Domination & submission (if desired) to keep it spicy

In this weekend immersion you will sink into a full-bodied experience and take away the skills and techniques to perform a 90mn to 2 hour Kinky Erotic Massage.

  • With lots of presentation, live demonstrations and hands-on practice!
  • Each couple will have a massage table to use for the entire weekend as well as cushions, yoga mats and comfortable seating for a cozy learning experience.
  • The weekend includes catered lunches, beverages and snacks.
  • Please wear loose clothing, feel comfortable being partially or fully naked, bring any massage items you would love to play with and come with an open mind and desire to learn!

Weekend Schedule:

Friday 7-9pm
Saturday 10-5
Sunday 10-4



$650 Early Bird until 5/5/15

$695 Regular Price


How Much Sex Is Normal?


Sex & Creativity Playshop at Siren Festival Oakland Sunday, Sept 14 1-3pm

I am excited to be teaching at the Siren Festival this Sunday in Oakland

Join me!

Sex & Creativity Playshop!

hosted by Anya de Montigny (:00 – 3:00 pm)

Workshop Description:

Do you want to discover your juicy artistic expression?

Have you often felt that your sexuality and creativity are connected?

Are you ready to expand your sensory awareness and creative flow in a group dynamic?
Then join Anya de Montigny, Women’s Sexuality Expert in a transformational journey to awaken your senses and create art to celebrate your sexual and creative energy!

Somatic Awareness: Sex & Creativity Playshop!

  • Explore individual and partner touch exercises to feel the sensual and creative energy between us.
  • Harness your sexual flow and channel it into your creative process.
  • Move through emotional blocks to allow for greater artistic awareness.
  • Open up to your juicy creative potential through breathe and movement.
  • Create an art piece that reflects your authentic sexual nature.

We will be diving deep into our expression of life, creation and sexual flow! We will share our stories, engage in movement and create art together as a community using group energy to fuel our creativity. We end the PlayShop with a powerful art process that you can take home with you! Art supplies are included.

For more information and to buy tickets to the festival:


SquirtGasms! Guide to Female Orgasm and Ejaculation ~ A Women’s only Safe Space to Discuss, Learn about and Explore our Beautiful Bodies.

SquirtGasms! Guide to Female Orgasm and Ejaculation

~ A Women’s only Safe Space to Discuss, Learn about and Explore our Beautiful Bodies.

Wednesday, August 6, 2014 6:30-9:30 Center for Sex & Culture, San Francisco $20

Do you want to know more about your body?

Are you curious about your Orgasm?

Do you enjoy learning about your own anatomy and physiology?

Are you interested in a women’s only space to share your stories?

Come to this exciting women’s only class where we will have a lecture on female orgasm, female ejaculation, how to stimulate ourselves for maximum pleasure and where you will have the opportunity to see a Live Demo and participate in a hands-on lab (lab is optional).

This is a Safe Space created for Women Only as a way for us to get to know our own bodies, share our stories and be held in a loving container to go deeper into our sexual selves and the possibility of expanded pleasure.

Anya de Montigny is a Sexuality Expert with over 18 years experience working with individuals, couples & groups. Anya has credentials as a Sex Educator, Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker & Bondassage Practitioner with training from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI) and was a resident at the live-in sensual research center One Taste. Anya combines her classroom training with her years of hands-on work to bring to the public the best in adult sex education. Anya is the host of the weekly radio show, The O Word Sex Talk Radio on She specializes in working with Women & Couples in her private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area and is available for coaching and consultation throughout the world and via Skype.


For more information, to ask Anya questions about the class or to get in touch for any other reason please email: or call 415-570-1302




7/9/14 7 – 10pm Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage for Lovers *London*

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Bondassage is a fun, hot and exciting way to add Erotic Massage, Sensation Play, Sensory Deprivation & a little (or a lot) of Kink to your sex life. Ideal for couples wanting to add variation to their intimate play, find ways to connect more deeply, spice it up & have sexy, erotic fun together as well [...]

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