Men

I work with men who have a variety of sexual issues including:

• Porn Use or Addiction leading to ED, EE & DE (delayed ejaculation)
• Kinks & Fetishes
• Older Virgins

Porn Use or Addiction resulting in ED, EE or DE

Many men are no longer able to masturbate without the aid of visuals to bring them to climax.  Over time this can change the circuitry of the brain to only respond to greater and greater levels of visual aids sometimes without any real feelings of pleasure or satisfaction but often times resulting in frustration, guilt, shame and lack of pleasure.  Over time, the body adapts to the signals it gets sent and no longer responds to other sexual cues like touch, kissing, romance, the site of a real human body etc.  This can result in a variety of male sexual dysfunctions.  The good news is this can be reversible using a combination of weaning off porn, stopping porn altogether, “rebooting” the brain, somatic “masturbation meditations”, slow sex with your partner, sensual massage with partner and more.

Kinks & Fetishes

Are you struggling to integrate your fetish or kinks into your long-term relationship? Have you thought of going outside your relationship to get your needs met?

Do you feel guilty for having these desires but don’t know who to talk to?

I specialize in working with men who have a desire to weave their fetish or kink into their long term relationship and who struggle with “vanilla” sex.  By creating a safe space to be heard and offering simple yet effective suggestions for bridging the gap between you and your partner you will see an improvement in your sex life.

Older Virgins

You are not alone! I have worked with many older virgins (over 30) who are struggling with anxiety and performance issues.  If you are in a new relationship or want to start a relationship, through coaching and somatic awareness practices you can be successful in achieving a satisfying sex life with a partner.

“I have been struggling with my fetish for many, many years and always felt it was never a good time to bring it up to my wife.  I have gone to professionals to “scratch the itch” but it was never fully satisfying because, frankly, I want to be experiencing this in my relationship not with a stranger.  I finally decided to seek help and reached out to Dr. Anya.  Today, I feel a lot more secure with myself and my wife and I have started to slowly explore my fetish.  What a relief! I highly recommend breaking the silence and talking to Dr. Anya”. Howard K., Oakland