Erotic Massage can turn around the most tired and boring sex lives! Many of the couples I work with have been together for a long time and have full-time jobs, kids, long commutes and modern-day stressors. They report being too tired to have anything but boring sex. When I say tired I mean not inspired, not passionate, not hot, not sexy. I refer to the “squeeze one out” kind of sex that happens in bed at the end of the day when everyone is tired. When I say boring I mean the “one trick pony” kind of sex that is routine, gets you where you want to go, is the tried and true formula and that may have remained the same for years.
I encourage couples to learn erotic massage techniques to create a new avenue of sexual fun together. The benefits of massage are many!
Therapeutic massage has many benefits including relieving:
- Digestive disorders
- Insomnia related to stress
- Myofascial pain syndrome
- Soft tissue strains or injuries
- Sports injuries
- Temporomandibular joint pain
The benefits of erotic massage include:
- Awakening the senses
- Exploring pleasure in new and creative ways.
- Creating a conscious connection between the giver and the receiver.
- Using breath, sound, and movement to awaken full-body orgasm.
- A wonderful prelude to orgasmic sex.
I encourage the couples I work with to buy a massage table, take a couples massage introductory class, watch some instructional videos, and spice it up even further with The Art of Bondassage a unique hybrid of light kink and erotic massage. I am an avid fan of people getting to know their own body by receiving touch and getting to know their partner’s body by taking time to slow down and explore erogenous zones using body to body flow, sensation play toys, oils and their own creativity.
Anya de Montigny, DHS is a sexuality expert with over 20 years experience working with individuals, couples, and groups. Dr. Anya has a Doctor of Human Sexuality (DHS) degree, is a certified sex educator and certified sex coach and was the host of the popular radio show The O Word Sex Talk Radio. Dr. Anya has a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area working with individuals and couples and invites straight and LGBTQ people into her practice. She also teaches adult sex education classes as well as consent & boundaries workshops at Universities and Colleges.