Who can benefit from Sex & Intimacy Coaching with Dr. Anya?

Couples who are in a loving, long-term, committed relationship.  You do not have doubts about your commitment to each other, however, you are struggling with your sex life and would love to get it back on track.

Women who would like to achieve orgasms, increase libido and get to the bottom of why you are not feeling desire for your partner.

Men who are in loving, committed relationships and are questioning your relationship to kinks, fetishes, porn use/overuse, erectile dysfunction, “eager” ejaculation or delayed ejaculation.

Who would not benefit from Sex & Intimacy Coaching with Dr. Anya?

Couples who doubt their commitment to each other and whose relationship is tumultuous and on the rocks.  I would recommend therapy sessions with a licensed MFT, PsyD. or LCSW.

Men who are single and dating and may be struggling with anxiety issues around their sexuality.  At this time, I am only working with men in committed relationships.

Women who have experienced childhood sexual trauma.  I would suggest therapy or Somatic Experiencing to work on the deeper issues of sexual trauma before working with a sex coach.

Are you struggling with issues around sexuality and intimacy and running into walls trying to fix your problems? Maybe therapy or medicine has been only moderately beneficial and you are seeking some practical, reliable tools and techniques to achieve the results you desire?

Most clients see results quickly using my tried and true approaches to sexuality.  My work is a blend of Clinical Sexology, The Gottman Method for Couples, Sex Education, and Somatic Sexology.

Our sessions begin with an initial get to know you appointment.  I want to make sure that you feel comfortable working with me and that the environment I create will work for your goals for treatment.  If you decide to move on for weekly sessions we begin with a thorough intake appointment that includes a sexual and lifestyle history and goals for treatment. We continue to meet weekly and all clients receive HomePlay exercises to do in between sessions with additional resources including books, videos and custom crafted curriculum.

This work is wonderful as stand-alone sex coaching for those who are ready to dive in and, some people benefit from seeing a psychotherapist in addition to myself if there are deep-rooted issues that our work is not able to address.

My work is trauma-informed, meaning that I do not believe in pushing people farther than they can go, I respect boundaries and use a collaborative approach to transformation – taking into consideration any past traumas, wounds or hurts that would warrant a slow and gentle approach.

HomePlay assignments can include:

  • Custom crafted curriculum based on your specific needs. From vanilla to kinky.
  • Gottman Method Relationship Check-Ups for Couples.
  • Tried & True Curriculum specially designed for couples.
  • Books
  • Videos
  • Mindfulness techniques
  • Sex Education – from beginning to advanced depending on the individual’s level of education.

Have more questions? Please book a free consultation.

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