Women are my favorite clients because women want to grow and when they want to grow they change rapidly. It seems that when a woman is done living unfulfilled and has reached a point of pain that is too uncomfortable to live with any longer she reaches out for help. Maybe it’s our cultural upbringing but it seems that knowledgeable women are able to reach out for help and experience rapid transformation just from knowing that she is not alone in her struggles. Okay, I may be generalizing and perhaps not all women do this ~ but the women who find me and truly want to realize their sexual and intimate potential do.
I know that from my own personal experience when I am sick of a habit of mine I will do almost anything to make a positive change. I do not like to be depressed or unhappy and I know that this life is the real deal, one-shot at having what I want! Because I know that I choose my own fate when it comes to my happiness I tend to not dwell in the pain that long.
And, I wasn’t always this way. There was a time when I would sit with unhappiness a lot longer. But over time and with age I learned that this does nothing for me or for the people around me except create more misery. These days when something is not fulfilling me and I know that I deserve better I create that betterness and happiness in my life. Most times it means reaching out for some coaching and mentoring with people who have something to that I want.
I find that the women I work with are also these types of people. They are women who have one big, beautiful and bold life to live and will no longer compromise their happiness.
More and more women are saying yes! to their juicy selves and their sexual happiness.
When a woman comes to me with her partner the transformation is equally as powerful. I tend to see huge shifts within the first 1-3 sessions and it just gets better from there. Of course, there can be challenging issues that are confronted and sometimes, growth can be uncomfortable but in a safe space in a pre-agreed to formate positive transformation is bound to happen.
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Anya de Montigny, DHS is a sexuality expert with over 20 years experience working with individuals, couples, and groups. Dr. Anya has a Doctor of Human Sexuality (DHS) degree, is a certified sex educator and certified sex coach and was the host of the popular radio show The O Word Sex Talk Radio. Dr. Anya has a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area working with individuals and couples and invites straight and LGBTQ people into her practice. She also teaches adult sex education classes as well as consent & boundaries workshops at Universities and Colleges.