SquirtGasms! Female Ejaculation Workshop with Anya & Smooch Es May 7, 2014 6:30-9:30pm @ Center for Sex & Culture

anya-banner.jpgimagesTo purchase tickets: www.SquirtGasms.com

Are you excited to learn about Female Ejaculation?

Do you need some tips and techniques to get started?

Does the prospect of having a more expanded orgasm through G-Spot Stimulation sound awesome?

Learn how stimulating the G-spot increases orgasmic pleasure, releases deep seated emotions and helps to maintain health of the pelvic floor muscles & Discover the power of Female Ejaculation!

With Presentation, LIVE DEMO & Hands-On Lab!

In the workshop we will:

Discuss the myths and truths of the female ejaculate liquid and answer the question, “is it pee”?

Discover the healing potential of G-Spot Massage

Learn important anatomy of the vagina including G-spot, Skene’s glands and the PC muscles.

Learn how solo and partnered practice can be woven into your sex life.

Discuss important toys and techniques to ejaculate.

Enjoy a Hands-On Lab with your partner to practice right away!

 

 

April 25th 6:30 – 9:30 Private Class ~ Squirt! Female Ejaculation & G-Spot Massage ~ Limited to 5 Couples in Jack London Square, Oakland

imagesYes, it’s that season again.  I am offering my Squirt! Female Ejaculation & G-Spot Massage class!

Squirt! Female Ejaculation & G-Spot Massage for Couples!

Are you excited to learn about Female Ejaculation?

Do you need some tips and techniques to get started?

Does the prospect of having a more expanded orgasm through G-Spot Stimulation sound awesome? 

Learn how stimulating the G-spot increases orgasmic pleasure, releases deep seated emotions and helps to maintain health of the pelvic floor muscles. Discover the power of Female Ejaculation! 

With Presentation, LIVE DEMO & Hands-On Lab!

In the workshop we will:

  • Discuss the myths and truths of the female ejaculate liquid and answer the question, “is it pee”?
  • Discover the healing potential of G-Spot Massage
  • Learn important anatomy of the vagina including G-spot, Skene’s glands and the PC muscles.
  • Learn how solo and partnered practice can be woven into your sex life.
  • Discuss important toys and techniques to ejaculate. 
  • Enjoy a Hands-On Lab with your partner to practice right away!

With wine, tea & snacks this is an intimate gathering for those looking for explore Hands-On Sex Education where the focus is on getting specific tools and techniques to get started right away.

When: Friday, April 25th, 2014

Where: Jack London Square, Oakland

Cost: $75/Couple

RSVP: teachmeaboutsex@gmail.com

 

 

Sacred Kink for Lovers ~ Private Workshop ~ Wednesday, 2/12 Jack London Square, Oakland 6:30-9:30

 Hi everyone,

We are now offering this class Wednesday, 2/12 at a Private Condo in Jack London Square, Oakland.

6:30-9:30

Wine, Tea and Snacks provided

$30 individual/$50 couple

Please email Anya at TeachMeAboutSex@gmail.com to register!

 

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Are you excited about the possibility of weaving a Sacred Ritual into your Kinky play?Does the thought of expanding your possibilities around Ecstatic trance states sound tempting?Are you looking for new and exciting ways to play with sexual energy?

Would you love to combine pleasure & erotic healing into your sex life?

Then join Anya de Montigny & Francesca Gentille for a special class on Sacred Kink and enter into a whole new world of possibility.

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Sex Educators Anya de Montigny & Francesca Gentille are excited to offer you a unique and sexy class that explores the dynamic and ecstatic combination of Sacred Ritual and Kink.

With a combination of Lecture, Q&A, *LIVE DEMO* and optional Hands-On Lab (you must have a friend or partner to practice with if you want to stay for this portion of the evening).

You will learn:

Communication Exercises: asking the questions that deepen intimacy & connection

Breathing Exercises: to unlock energy, and blood flow, and weave it with your partner

Visualization Techniques for guiding and enhancing the sensation & the intentions of the play

Creating Ritual: Including setting the space, utilizing toys & household objects to create the mood and catalyze a sense of mystery

*Optional* for those who want to practice it is optional to do a mini Kink Ritual with your partner.  Anya & Francesca can offer support and guidance and answer questions during this part of the evening.

 

RESCHEDULED: Sacred Kink for Pleasure with Anya de Montigny & Francesca Gentille

Current Bio ~ AnyaAre you excited about the possibility of weaving a Sacred Ritual into your Kinky play?Does the thought of expanding your possibilities around Ecstatic trance states sound tempting?Are you looking for new and exciting ways to play with sexual energy?

Would you love to combine pleasure & erotic healing into your sex life?

Then join Anya de Montigny & Francesca Gentille for a special class on Sacred Kink and enter into a whole new world of possibility.

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Sex Educators Anya de Montigny & Francesca Gentille are excited to offer you a unique and sexy class that explores the dynamic and ecstatic combination of Sacred Ritual and Kink.

With a combination of Lecture, Q&A, *LIVE DEMO* and optional Hands-On Lab (you must have a friend or partner to practice with if you want to stay for this portion of the evening).

You will learn:

Communication Exercises: asking the questions that deepen intimacy & connection

Breathing Exercises: to unlock energy, and blood flow, and weave it with your partner

Visualization Techniques for guiding and enhancing the sensation & the intentions of the play

Creating Ritual: Including setting the space, utilizing toys & household objects to create the mood and catalyze a sense of mystery

*Optional* for those who want to practice it is optional to do a mini Kink Ritual with your partner.  Anya & Francesca can offer support and guidance and answer questions during this part of the evening.

 

Sensual Massage for Lovers ~ Private Workshop with Anya January 16, 2014 ~ Open to 6 Couples

sensual massage stock photoHi everyone and Happy New Year!

I am starting a new monthly series of Private Workshops for those that want a more intimate setting, perhaps live in the East Bay and don’t get over to San Francisco for my monthly series, “First Wednesdays with Anya & Friends” at the Center for Sex & Culture or who want to learn even more tips and techniques for an amazing sex life!

These Private Workshops will be held at a high-end Condo in Jack London Square and are open to a maximum of 6 couples.

Offered on the second Thursday of every month!

January kicks of the New Year with:

Sensual Massage for Lovers

Thursday, January 16th
$75/couple
6:30-9:30pm
wine, tea and snacks provided

Open to 6 couples maximum
Celebrate the New Year and learn how to give your Lover an Amazing Sensual Massage!
Bring a bottle of massage oil, a lover to massage, an open mind!
Anya will be teaching from her 18 years experience as both an outstanding CMT and sensual massage therapist.
You will learn:
Sensual and therapeutic massage techniques
Body to body strokes
Breathing techniques to synchronize energy
Hot oil, Hot packs and Hot towels for Bliss
Genital Massage
Sensation toys
Tease & Denial…  and more!

With a LIVE DEMO (volunteer will come from the audience :-))

And plenty of time for Hands-on Lab

With 800 sq ft of yummy space to get cozy in!

To Register for this workshop email me at: TeachMeAboutSex@gmail.com

If you are excited about taking one of my classes but are not able to come to this one please email me at: TeachMeAboutSex@gmail.com or subscribe to my mailing list!

 

Squirt! Female and FTM Ejaculation

I just had a panel of Sexperts join me for a wonderful discussion about Female and Trans-Male (FTM) Ejaculation at Oakland’s local sex toy shop: Feelmore510.  With Madison Young, Dr. Ari Zadel and Pavini Moray we dove into the subject of Female and FTM ejaculation and had a lot of fun discussing it from many angles.

As a Sexologist I have had the privilege of hundreds of hours of sex education, hundreds more than the average doctor.  Sexologists are specialists who dedicate our lives to the single subject of Human Sexuality and all it’s expressions.  I have the first hand knowledge that Female and FTM ejaculation is not only possible but normal and healthy!  Of course, it’s not necessary to ejaculate to have great sex and it is not everyone’s preference or desire to squirt.  But, if you are a squirter or if you want to be then I am here to tell you to go for it!

The controversy that surrounds female and FTM ejaculation is pretty epic.  To start, Doctors are still on the fence that the G-spot (“discovered” and named after the German Dr. Grafenberg) exists.  As Dr. Ari Zadel pointed out, if the medical community can not isolate something in every human body and label it then there is not enough proof to be considered part of human anatomy.  And with the G-spot because not every woman or FTM has one in the same exact location or with the same look, touch and physical make-up some people do not agree that it exists.  As Sexologists we know that there are varying degrees of size, texture and even sensation in this area of the vagina and with enough conclusive somatic, experiential and scientific evidence we agree that it is a part of female and trans-male sexual anatomy.

So why talk about the G-spot? Around and encompassing the G-spot is the para-urethral sponge which is what becomes engorged during sexual arousal with a fluid that is the same as what men ejaculate: Prostatic fluid.  This fluid drains through glands and into the urethra and back out during ejaculation.  This is pretty darn fascinating and something that has called up quite a lot of discussion over when people wonder, well “Is it pee?”

A valid question to ask! Sure, ejaculate does come out of the urethra, the same place that urine is released, and it can be quite copious in amount just like pee.  However, when this substance is taken to the lab and analyzed it shows a few things:  1) the presence of prostatic fluid (which is not found in urine), 2) lesser amounts of urea (a substance found in urine) and 3) lesser amounts of creatinine (a substance found in urine).  People also report that it doesn’t have the same color as urine nor does it smell like urine but may have a sweeter smell, an absence of smell or just smell different.

As we discussed in the panel there are still a lot of questions that have not been answered about this ejaculate fluid.  Namely, how can there be so much of it?  And, how is it that even after just urinating so much still comes out?  When these questions are asked by the audience we all laugh and shrug because the body truly is a mystery! There has not been a ton of study on this aspect of our sexuality and until people decide to do large and long-term research on Female and FTM Ejaculation we will have to do our own, at-home research and come up with some of our own answers.

Ejaculation Tip:  there are a few things that are important in learning how to ejaculate as a woman or FTM.  Instead of getting into a full “how-to” I will describe one step that you can practice right now and for more information please contact me!

Do your Kegels!  Kegels (named after Dr. Arnold Kegel) is an exercise of the pelvic floor muscles that strengthens, tightens and brings control to this area.  Often helpful for pregnant woman and people who experience incontinence it is also recommended to help strengthen and isolate the muscles that will be needed to successfully expel ejaculate out of the urethra as well as produce more powerful orgasms.

How it’s done:  1) Isolate the PC muscle (this is the muscle that we use to stop the flow of urine while we are peeing and is accessed internally by squeezing the pelvic floor).  2) Gently contract and release this area for several seconds 3) Practice this technique often.

This is one exercise that will get you going and on your way to be able to ejaculate.  Don’t force the issue and try not to get frustrated if nothing is happening during intercourse.  It takes the body a while to do what we want it to and it requires patience and practice.  And, it’s not necessary to ejaculate to have good sex so also focus on all the other pleasurable things you are doing.  If it happens it happens!

As always I encourage people to be “sensual researchers” and experiment with what feels good while trying on new things.  If you are curious about ejaculation and how to ejaculate there are some great resources on the subject and I love to work with individuals and couples to teach how to become squirters.  I also offer experiential workshops in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Sign up for my monthly Newsletter or  Contact Me to find out when my next workshop is and how to work with me personally and for more tips and tricks to having a hot and fun sex life!

 

The 7 Secrets of Sensual Touch to Spice Up your Love Life ~ Levels 1 & 2

 The 7 Secrets of Sensual Touch to Spice Up your Love Life ~ Levels 1 & 2
Do you want to learn how to give an amazing sensual massage to spice up your love life?

Are you excited to learn fun techniques to arouse and please your lover?

Do you want to learn hot ways to communicate your desires?

Then come to this playful, intimate and interactive workshop!

 

 

 

 

 

 

In Level 1 you will  learn how to:

  • Apply the perfect pressure
  • Discover those juicy erogenous zones
  • Give for the other’s pleasure and joy
  • Know exactly what turns your lover on
  • Explore playful – creative touch using sensation toys
  • Experiment with oil and skin to skin massage
  • Make communicating your desires fun and sexy

This workshop is for couples and paired singles. Each couple will take turns exploring sensual massage with their partner.  Please note: as this is a  Level 1 course participants will remain partially clothed.  Wear shorts, a bathing suit or an outfit that is easily adjusted to expose your arms legs and back.

$55 per couple

8 couples maximum

Light refreshments will be served

Level 2 ~
Take your Sensual Massage and Communication training to the next Level with this more in-depth class!Are you and your partner ready to learn advanced skills of sensual touch for more fun, play and sensation in the bedroom?Does the idea of experimenting with various sensation toys sound exciting?Have you always wanted to learn about those secret spots that turn each other on but feel mystified figuring it out on your own?Then this is the class for you!You will learn how to:•    Give a full body sensual massage from head to toe
•    Playfully apply various pressures and toys for heightened sensation
•    Learn advanced techniques to sensually arouse each other
•    Go deeper into communication to really get what the other wants and de-mystify desire
•    Discover how breath can extend blissful sensations and bring you closer to your loverThis is a workshop for Couples and paired Singles ~ please bring your lover (or a date)Each couple will take turns exploring sensual massage with their partner.Please be aware that there will be partial nudity with draping (using sheets and towels).
Wear comfortable, loose clothing and bring extra pillows if you’d like.$55 per coupleLight refreshments will be served

 

Bondassage for Couples ~ Offered by Anya de Montigny of Teach Me About Sex

Spice it up with Bondassage! We all go through ups and downs in our sex lives and sometimes we just need a little bit of spice to get the engine revving again.  Face it, after a long time with our lovers sex can get routine and sometimes just downright boring.  This is where Bondassage for Couples comes in 🙂  I am teaching this super HOT and fun modality to couples to spice things up in the bedroom.  A bit of rope, a bunch of fun toys (soft and yummy to fun and kinky), swedish massage strokes and light sensory deprivation all in a sequence designed to turn you on and bliss you out.

My sessions are for Women who want to learn new things to please her partner (how to tie ‘im down and turn ‘im on) or for Couples who want to learn together by taking turns and experimenting with new sensations …

Bondassage was created with the idea that people want to explore kink in their relationships but don’t necessarily know where to start.  With the book sensation, 50 Shades of Grey we are finding out just how much society is hungry for more edgy play in their sex lives. Don’t worry about trying to find a class at some obscure dungeon in some funny part of town 😉 (just kidding… I highly suggest taking those classes if you want some great instruction) but really, wouldn’t it be more fun and convenient to just have someone come over and show you the way?  Super light bondage and high levels of sensation are what’s to be expected in these sessions.  It’s a long, fun and exciting journey from start to finish that pushes your edges just a bit and leaves you wanting more…

“If the best massage of your life, punctuated with erotic sensory play while blindfolded and strapped down to a cushy massage table sounds appealing, you must try Bondassage … It’s a feast of delicious sensations, from deep relaxation to highly stimulating touch … the combination of virtuoso massage skills, “body percussion”, submission, sensation play, and sensory deprivation will take you to places you’ve never been before. It’s like nothing I’d ever experienced … Words simply cannot describe it. As powerful as any dream fantasy I’ve ever had.”  ~Sebastian

Book a session and leave boring behind!

Somatic Awareness: Sex & Creativity Playshop

As a culture obsessed with the mind we tend to neglect the powerful energies of the body causing us to become imbalanced. Often times, even with art we are approaching the process through a mental medium. In the lineage of Tantra the second chakra or sex chakra is believed to be the center of creativity. And in fact, as this is where life is created so is the life of our art, our writing and all of our inspired endeavors. By delving into the power of this energy center through somatic awareness techniques we are able to unleash it’s full potential and effectively enter into a state of release from the mind’s grip and surrender into our flow. From this state life itself is a blissfully ecstatic creative expression of our sexuality. Making art while in the state of deep embodiment is akin to the incredible bliss and rush of energy we experience in sex – an egoless state of total union.

In this body based workshop we will explore the energies of sex and creativity. Using individual and partnered conscious touch exercises, tantra meditation and ecstatic movement we will feel our bodies come alive with sensation, laughter and play. In a deeply embodied and sensual state we will end the workshop with a genital self-image drawing allowing us to explore our sexuality creativity on paper.

You will walk away with new tools in Somatic Awareness practices and feel deeply energized and artistically expressed.

The goal of this workshop to enable you to discover a more expansive, body-based experience in which to feel more, connect deeply and create expressive art.

Relax

In our fast paced society we tend to overwork ourselves and then crash at the end of a long day simply because the body says, “no more”. Sometimes relaxation only occurs during sleeping hours but is surrounded by busyness and do do do. Intentional relaxation, however, is setting up a space or a container and an adequate amount of time to relax.

Intentionally taking time each day to meditate, lay in a long  after a great yoga practice, take a walk in nature, slow down enough to really connect with our loved ones and receive sacred bodywork are keys to living a happy, healthy life.

Holding a space for intentional relaxation creates not only a physical boundary but also an energetic one. It teaches the body to release tension in a place that is designed for those purposes and when we return  the body has an easier time letting go.

Some suggestions of places to create space for relaxation   the garden, a quiet corner of your office, your favorite comfy chair, a secluded nook of your office building, a lovely trail on a nature walk, and your bodyworker’s table!  In addition to returning to a place daily to  a bodywork session a couple of times a month. Schedule your sessions so that you know in advance that there will be a space just for you.  specifically dedicated  full body relaxation. Enjoy yourself, your body and your daily escape and life a happy, healthy and sane life.