Ladies Night Out & Dungeon Tour! Wed, 5/10/17 6:30-9

Ladies Night Out & Dungoen Tour with Dr. Anya
Wednesday, 5/10 630-9 at Black Thorn, Oakland

You are invited to attend:

Ladies Night Out & Dungeon Tour

Wednesday, May 10, 2017 from 6:30 PM9:00 PM


Join Dr. Anya for Ladies Night Out!

We all work hard and deserve to have a little naughty fun. Enjoy tasty beverages, luscious snacks and come dressed to impress for a night out with the Ladies!

Many women ask me how to step into their Female Dominant so that they can own their own pleasure, tell their lover what to do in a sexy or dominating way, take the reins and rule the show! I believe that all women know how to be bossy, bratty, bold, entitled, deserving and a little (or a lot) demanding.  We can all do this, however, because it isn’t always looked at as sexy (the bitch is usually told to be quiet) we suppress this part of ourselves.  Then, when our lovers ask us to tie them up, tease them, force them to surrender to our wiles and ways we can freeze up.  Um, how is this done in a sexy and pleasurable way for us?  This evening is designed for Ladies to get an exclusive Dungeon Tour to enter into the realm of the Female Dominant Universe.  This Dungeon space has been crafted for the purpose of making it just that much easier to play in a kinky way with your submissive.  It is rare to get an opportunity to see what a Dungeon looks like, get to view all of the toys (and there are 1000s!), get a thorough tour and have fun with your girlfriends oohing and aahing over the potentials of the space.   Along with the Dungeon Tour there will be a brief Bondassage demo. Bondassage is a wonderful hybrid between erotic massage and kink and is a great way for newbies to begin their kinky play with their lover.  Bondassage is also fun for those who are already involved in BDSM/Kink and who want to learn new ways to incorporate erotic massage into their play time.  This is a night just for the Ladies. There will be some raffle prizes, discounts on Dungeon rentals and opportunities to take more of Dr. Anya’s classes.

Attire: Sexy. Little black dress, heels, comfortable Domme clothes, fetish attire, sexy suits, Diva dresses and more!

Beverages & light snacks will be served.

This is an exclusive, private and very underground location in Lake Merrit so the address will be given out post registration.  If you are coming with friends plan to save time by taking one care.  There is limited to no public transportation in the area.  This is a safe location, however, we ask that you remain respectful to neighborhors and be discreet upon arrival.

TICKETS – $55

Dr. Anya is a Sex Educator and Clinical Sexologist with a background in hands-on healing that spanned therapeutic massage to erotic massage to Tantra Bodywork and culminated in a love for the high art of Pro Domination.  She paid her way through school and raised a child learning everything there is to know about sexuality and eventually got her Doctorate in Human Sexuality after a lifetime of study.  Dr. Anya has a clinical sexology practice in the San Francisco Bay Area specializing in women’s sexuality, she works with women and couples who want to take their sex lives out of the funk and into the fun and sexy world of possibilities and she ultimately believes that an empowered, sexy woman is the future of our world.  Join Dr. Anya on this fun evening where she will give you a guided Dungeon Tour and teach you a litle about one of her passinos, Bondassage!

Black Thorn

Address Given out upon registration

Oakland, CA 94607

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5 Secrets to Discover Your Seductive Dominant Female Self (& Have More Fulfillment in the Bedroom)

Discover the type of Female Dominant you are to Powerfully own your Sexy, In-Charge Self and Have Some Kinky Fun! Are you a Queen, Seductress, Punisher, Mother Figure, Brat? Let’s find out!

Join me for a fabulous, magical weekend just for women!

Info & Tickets: Women’s Nature & Spirituality Retreat. Easter Weekend Sat April 15 – Sun April 16
Oakland Hills Private Mansion Sanctuary.

I will be leading a wonderful class to empower you to step into your confident, female dominant archetype. When women harness the power of their confident sexuality and use it with care in the bedroom a whole new world can open up!

 

 

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A NOURISHING WEEKEND OF

Ceremony, Ritual, Feminine Networking,
Wisdom Sharing, Indigenous Teachings, Women’s Circles,
Movement, Laughter, Breath, Song, Workshops and
Sisterhood…

Join us and spend a weekend rejuvenating in the glow of the Goddess energy. There are many fabulous workshops, space to relax and unwind and all in a gorgeous Oakland Hills Mansion.

We would love you to attend the whole weekend and drop into my class on Saturday 3-4pm. Bring some friends, make it super special!

 

 

 

Goddess Revival April 15-16th, Oakland Hills

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Easter Weekend . Saturday April 15-Sunday April 16 . Oakland Hills Private Mansion Sanctuary

A NOURISHING WEEKEND OF 
Ceremony, Ritual, Feminine Networking,
Wisdom Sharing, Indigenous Teachings, Women’s Circles,
Movement, Laughter, Breath, Song, Workshops and
Sisterhood…

WOMEN RISING TOGETHER AS THE LEADERS & HEALERS OF OUR FUTURE

We are all opening to new ideas and inspiration – our deep feminine knowing guiding us to link arms with soul sisters who can collaborate with us to “lead with Light” and take a stand for the protection of compassion, peace and feminine wisdom.   Join us for a nourishing weekend of positive sisterhood and women committed to catalyzing positive change together.

 STUNNING FEMININE LOCATION IN NATURE

(Oakland Hills Private Mansion Sanctuary) A sacred womb-like place for the feminine to luxuriate and to expand together: This indoor/outdoor sanctuary will nourish your feminine soul. Hiking trails run just behind the property, beautiful lawns to soak in the sun and read a book or cool shade under tall trees to sit and meditate or connect with other wonderful warm-hearted women. Workshops and ceremonies will be held both indoors and outdoors all weekend.
Address and parking info emailed to you immediately upon registration.

REVIVING & RECLAIMING THE ANCIENT GODDESS ROOTS OF EASTER

In ancient times “Easter” was a goddess celebration. From Kali, Coatlicue, Ostara, Oya, Olokun, Ishtar, Eostre, Hathor, Astarte, Inanna, Aphrodite – This retreat is a celebration of ancient feminine wisdom and the goddess roots of women in the healing arts, feminine prosperity,
honoring earth wisdom
and cycles which go deep in every ancient culture across the globe .

As soon as you arrive you will know right away
that this will be no ordinary weekend.

This will absolutely be a weekend of positivity,
sisterhood and rejuvenation.

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WORKSHOPS AND CEREMONIES INCLUDE:

We would be honored if you’d claim your powerful seat and join us for this powerful retreat.

Bring your wisdom to this gathering.

Together we’ll all address important questions facing women change makers.

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Healing Ceremony with A Native American Elder & Standing Rock Activist: “Indigenous Wisdom and Ancient Teachings for Healing” with Dr. Maria D. Michael Ph.D. – Medical Intuitive, Channel, Empath, Healer, Psychic And Teacher – Activate Yourself as the Woman Healer & Change Maker You’re Deepening Into Being and Living. Connect with Maria all weekend. Soak up her wisdom about what it means to be a spiritual women, a mother, and an activist in these tumultuous times. Be inspired by her wisdom!


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Secrets To Accessing The 3 Sacred Feminine Superpowers
Amanda Elo’Esh Johnsen, MA, Spiritual Success Mentor & Medicine Woman – How to access the 3 Sacred Feminine Superpowers: Intuition, Abundance & Manifestation and use them to Live Your Purpose and to Make More Money

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 Embodied Intuition Goddess:    Embodying Your Whole Self to Access Your Wisdom
Maura McCarley Torkildson, Embodied Intuition Goddess  – Access a deeper level of awareness in your body and watch your intuition grow and empower your choices for life.

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How To Rise Out of The Energy Drain Of Conflict in Relationships
Rowena Starling – Conscious Parenting Mentor – Soften and Release Reactions and Relationship Stressors. Open to Fulfilling Love and Understanding.

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Own Your Magic: How to Bring Maximum Woo Into Your Work and Increase Your Reach at the Same Time 
Riyana Rose Sang – Herbal Counselor & Transformational Coach – Integrate your herbs and flower essences, crystals, akashic records, tarot into your work life in a way that creates bridges instead of walls, and creates greater impact for your clients while allowing you to be fully authentic and magical in your business.

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Evolving Love: Rewrite Your Relational DNA & Embody Your Ideal Love Story
Jennifer Russell – Visionary, Speaker, Coach, and Co-Author of “The Path Of The Priestess: Making It Safe To Be Powerful” – Learn  the source code for how healthy, powerful, and passionate relationships work. In this workshop we will be revealing and rewriting your most persistent relationship patterns.

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Using Nature’s Wisdom to Grow a Profitable Business Without Burning Out
Julie Wolk, Business Coach: Business Guided by Nature – Your business can feel natural! Through an interactive exploration of your own business, align with nature’s principles to create more clarity, ease, enjoyment and success.

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Queen For A Day, Queen for Life! Own your Power and Release Blocks to Your Heart’s Desire
Cia A Robles BS, CHT    Intuitive, Transformational Counselor, Hypnotherapist – Learn to make friends with the Ego-Resistor and transform her into your ally to Expand your Heart and Life!

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Relax Your Way to a Satisfied Soul: The Power of Rest in Your Sustainable Success
Deborah Wilder, Self Love Coach    Retreat Lover&Leader – Three Steps to a Satisfied Soul. Relaxing is Key.  Curiosity is the Cure.  Everything is a Reason to Open Your Heart.

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3 Keys to Ignite Your Beauty Look Amazing and Play Bigger!     
Francesca Ordona Hollingsworth – 5 Element Fashion Designer – Paint Your World with the Palette of Your Soul & Reveal the Work of Art that You Are

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Utilizing Sex Magic To Amplify Your Field And Call In Greater Opulence And Opportunities
Jessica Hadari, HHP, RYT, CMT, Master Rebirther. Founder, FEM Talks – Pleasure practices to expand your capacity to grow greater community around your mission and your message, call in more clients and reach larger audiences.

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Unlock Your Creative Genius
Amber Adrian – Channeler, Intuitive, Writer, Energy Healer, Tinder for Your Brilliant Spark – Activations and Energy Healing to Hook You Into Your Divine Brilliance

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The Great Journey: Preparing For Death (By Living Fully)
Carla Bauchmueller    International Regression and Meditation Teacher and Healer – Death is the great journey that’s waiting for all of us. Learn how to get ready and what that means for living your meaningful life.

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Dial Your Destiny to Live a Life of Synchronicity, Magic and Miracles.
Reata Lyn Rhine, Master SoulWorks Coach, – In a fun approach we will take a journey into a portal of a meaning-lead life : Attract your hearts desire.

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3 Secrets to Being a Wise and Wealthy Goddess
Usha Sharma – Enlightened Wealth Trainer and Channel for Lakshmi – Tune into your divine wealth codes and fund your dreams.

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5 Secrets to Discover Your Seductive Dominant Female Self (& Have More Fulfillment in the Bedroom)
Dr. Anya – Sexuality Specialist – Discover the type of Female Dominant you are to Powerfully own your Sexy, In-Charge Self and Have Some Kinky Fun! Are you a Queen, Seductress, Punisher, Mother Figure, Brat? Let’s find out!

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Tap Into Business Magic: Why Love Is Your True Magic and How To Let Go Of Fear Holding You Back From Living Your Dreams
Sandy Zeldes – Tap Into Business Magic Coach  – Discover how to manifest success in your business with less effort and more ease through clearing subconscious fears holding you back.  

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Doing it Afraid Anyway: How to Rise Up Even When You’re Trembling All the Way
Ana Maria Sanchez, M.S.   Empowerment Counselor, Shamanic Reiki Practitioner, Channeler, Medium – Don’t keep it a secret. In putting yourself out there you take back your power and no longer live in your head. Through self exploration answers are revealed to guide you into your next steps.

Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction by William E. Hartman, PhD. And Marilyn A. Fithian

 

Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction by William E. Hartman, PhD. and Marilyn A. Fithian is an important contribution to the field of Sexology.  The book relays the unique and pioneering 2 week, in-person intensive sex therapy program of Hartman and Fithian in their clinic for couple’s sexual dysfunctions.  

The team of Hartman and Fithian were brave pioneers in the world of touch based sexuality research and what today might be called somatic sex therapy.  Hartman and Fithian worked with heterosexual, married couples who were experiencing “sexual dysfunction” including lack of intimacy, erectile dysfunction, inability to orgasm, mismatched libido and the sexless marriage. They chose to work solely with heterosexual couples and the language of the text reflects that. However, despite the fact that this book was written for and about heterosexual couples most of the exercises and methodologies used are applicable to all sexualities, genders and couples with some adjustments to reflect the specific needs of the individuals, relationships and sexual identities.

Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction was written in 1972 to describe the intensive 2 week couple’s body based sex therapy process of research and methods. The work of Hartman & Fithian as outlined in their book continues to give enormous benefit both to the field of sexology and sex therapy as well as to sexuality professionals who are desiring to or currently working with couples. Their system and methods, well grounded in research, gives permission and credibility to the benefits of body based sex therapy methods for couples.

As outlined in the Introduction, “Our program for treatment of human sexual dysfunction includes a series of steps, activities, and exercises moving the individual and the couple toward becoming more intimately in touch with their own feelings and the feelings of the significant other”. This healing journey for the couple is described as one which elicits a myriad of emotions, uncovers sensations, determines where there can be a lack of sensation and offers an opportunity to do go into those places where sexual repression and lack of permission around pleasure can be highlighted and healed for a deeper connection between couples.

Hartman and Fithian describe their system as a “biopsychosocial approach to the treatment of human sexual dysfunction”. (Pg. 1) Their process includes: psychological testing, the taking of a sex history for each individual, physical examination, sexological examination, body imagery, caress exercises, homework assignments, and the use of audio and video aids.

Hartman and Fithian used a dual-sex team approach as they believe that the, “importance of a dual-sex therapy team is evident when one considers the socialization process involved in taking on a sexual identity, male or female”… “It is, therefore, essential that representatives of both sexes, with their unique cultural conditioning be represented in a therapeutic situation involving two individuals with similar cultural experiences” (pg 3). It is evident that they wanted to create a highly specialized, safe space and container where their clients could feel absolutely comfortable and trusting when working with them. By using this dual-sex team approach they created such a container especially involving the use of touch by themselves towards their clients. “Touch between clients and therapists can take place much more readily and comfortably in such a situation”. (Pg. 4)

Hartman and Fithian ask each couple to begin by defining their goals for treatment and ask the question, “If we are successful in helping you, what will you be able to do that you cannot do now”?. This is an important question and asks the couples to take a deep look into their expectations and willingness to commit to the process. Hartman and Fithian make sure that it is known from the start that, “Resolution of sexual problems does not resolve all problems in a relationship”. (pg. 23). This allows the couple to view their sex life as one portion of their lives together and as an important part of their intimacy but not the totality of it.

By going through the 2 week intensive process the couple will discover many aspects of their intimacy they have previously not, just by doing the work of improving their sex lives. At the end of the 2 weeks Hartman and Fithian have a process in which to say Goodbye and to safely and with love close the container of the intense work they have all done with each other. With the the willingness to do the work and the effort to which the couple has engaged in they acknowledge the work that has been done and offer way in which the couple can stay connected through follow up calls and by staying in close contact during the month of so after the treatment has concluded.

I loved this book and would recommend it to someone studying couples sex therapy, touch based sex therapy, how to create an intensive program for couples and how to design curriculum as a systematic approach to somatic sex therapy that shows results.  My belief is that the work of William Hartman, PhD and Marilyn Fithian will continue to inspire people in the sexology professions to be better therapists and practitioners creating a modern as well as historical space in which we can excel at our profession.  The importance of touch based sex therapy can not be stressed enough.  It is through the practical application of any therapy that true change will take place.

The History of Sex Therapy

Sex Therapy has a rich history with it’s roots in ancient societies and cultures.  While not known as “therapy” in those times, the idea that people and couples needed some kind of assistance with sexual issues including sex positions, sex education, help with having pleasure, intimacy and fulfillment in their relationships was alive in human consciousness and addressed with a myriad of solutions.  The evolution of sex therapy is an interesting subject as cultures vary in degrees from being sex negative and religiously controlled to open and positive and desiring of it’s members to have pleasure and access to sexual improvement.  Therefore, looked at through a culturally inclusive as well as historical lense we will see that depending on the time, culture and religious views the style of therapy around sex has varied.

What is known today as “sex therapy” in the western world has it’s dawn in the days of the original sexologists of the early 1900s. With the emergence of sexology and psychoanalysis growing together side by side and being very much interrelated in the early days of Sigmund Freud, the libido theory and the work of important sexologists, the idea that there needed to be specialized therapies dealing with sexuality became prevalent.

Sex researchers Henry Havelock Ellis, Alfred Kinsey and Masters and Johnson also pushed the conversation forward throughout the western world and into the mainstream consciousness.  With new developments in research there developed names, pathologies and solutions for the common needs of individuals and couples sexuality and sexual development.

Another step forward in Sex Therapy was made by Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan who modified some of Masters and Johnson’s ideas to better suit her outpatient practice, including introducing medication, cognitive behavior therapy and psychodynamic therapy.  In 1976, Jack Annon created the PLISSIT model that provided a structured system for sex therapists, counselors and educators to follow and which is used by clinical sexologists, sex educators and those within the medical profession such a RNs to better assist their patients.

A huge contribution in  Sex Therapy was made by William E. Hartman, PhD. And Marilyn A. Fithian who published their groundbreaking work, Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction in 1972 to describe the intensive 2 week couple’s body based sex therapy process.  As outlined in the Introduction, “Our program for treatment of human sexual dysfunction includes a series of steps, activities, and exercises moving the individual and the couple toward becoming more intimately in touch with their own feelings and the feelings of the significant other”. This healing journey for the couple is described as one which elicits a myriad of emotions, uncovers sensations, determines where there can be a lack of sensation and offers an opportunity to do go into those places where sexual repression and lack of permission around pleasure can be highlighted and healed for a deeper connection between couples.

Hartman and Fithian describe their system as a “biopsychosocial approach to the treatment of human sexual dysfunction”. (Pg. 1) Their process includes: psychological testing, the taking of a sex history for each individual, physical examination, sexological examination, body imagery, caress exercises, homework assignments, and the use of audio and video aids.

The work of Hartman & Fithian  continues to give enormous benefit both to the field of sexology and sex therapy as well as to sexuality professionals who are desiring to or currently working with couples. Their system and methods, well grounded in research, gives permission and credibility to the benefits of body based sex therapy methods for couples.

In the 1980s sex therapy continued to become medicalized and treatments involving both psychotherapy and medical interventions for issues such as early ejaculation, male sexual libido, and loss of sensation due to surgeries were merged to allow the use of both body and mind based solutions to most sexual concerns.

Today, we have a very wide range of possibilities within the field of Sex Therapy. From talk therapy to medication to somatic practices that are ever evolving and changing to fit the needs of clients this is an exciting time in a powerful profession that enables to support people in having the sex lives they desire and bringing them to a place of functionality and wholeness.

 

The Controversy Between the Clitoral vs. Vaginal Orgasm

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In the history of female sexuality research, there has been a lot of discussion about clitoral and vaginal orgasms resulting in controversy within the medical, therapeutic and sexological fields of study.

A theory was proposed in 1905 by Sigmund Freud indicating a difference between an immature and a mature orgasm.  An adolescent orgasm, as he called it, was derived from clitoral stimulation whereas the orgasm of a mature woman transferred to the vaginal canal.  Psychiatrists at that time were influenced by the ideas of Freud and perpetuated this theory by diagnosing their female patients, who were only able to achieve orgasm by clitoral stimulation, as having early childhood conflicts which resulted in an inability to mature properly and achieve vaginal orgasm.

It was suggested that women should learn to masturbate properly and receive regular psychoanalysis so that early childhood issues could be resolved and a mature, vaginal orgasm could be reached.

In 1966, sex researchers Masters and Johnson published their research, Human Sexual Response.   They argued that the clitoris is the origination point of all female orgasm and that by stimulating the clitoris vaginal orgasm can be achieved.

A radical feminist, Anne Koedt, published an important work called The Myth of the Female Orgasm in 1970 at the dawn of the sexual revolution.  She highlighted the importance of all types of orgasms in women, wrote on female sexual anatomy and the findings of Masters and Johnson and argued that Freud used his work to depict women as inferior to men because of his diagnosis of “frigidity” or unexpressed sexual desire.  

We now know that the clitoris is just the “tip of the iceberg” and that it is but a small, yet highly sensitive, portion of arousal tissue that descends into the vaginal canal.  The clitoris is made up of many parts including the crus, or the legs of the clitoris which swell during arousal and are able to be stimulated inside the vaginal canal.  Masters and Johnson were right, all orgasms are clitoral as the clitoris is the female sex organ and can be reached in a variety of ways. If a woman is not able to achieve “vaginal orgasm” by having her clitoris internally stimulated but can achieve “clitoral orgasm” by having her clitoris externally stimulated, we know understand that this is a perfectly fine, acceptable and wonderful orgasm and has nothing to do with the maturity of a woman.

Women can spend a lifetime exploring their arousal tissue and finding new ways to orgasm. Some women orgasm simply through squeezing and contracting the pelvic floor, many oorgasm through G-spot stimulation, most orgasm with clitoral stimulation and some women are just beginning their orgasmic journey and are exploring what ways feels good to them.

There is still a lot of controversy around female orgasm.  This will continue to be a hot topic as women are finding their sexual expression, couples are taking sex education classes, more and more people are entering into the sexuality education field and human beings are simply curious. While there is not much debate about male orgasm, female orgasm, female ejaculation, the existence of various glands and where things come from and what parts do what continues to be a topic of research, discussion and debate.

I encourage all forms of controversy and myth.  I believe that we are growing as a sexual culture and that talking about female sexuality in any way is a good thing.  I love that there is a discussion going on and that I am a part of it.  I hope to continue to grow in this field and empower women to explore their arousal tissues and their orgasms and to have them any way they like!

 

Organic vs. Psychogenic Erectile Dysfunction

Organic Erectile Dysfunction, also known as Organic Impotence, refers to the inability to obtain an erection firm enough for vaginal penetration, or the inability to sustain the erection until completion of intercourse.

Psychogenic erectile dysfunction is defined as the persistent inability to achieve or maintain erection satisfactory for sexual performance owing predominantly or exclusively to psychological or interpersonal factors.

Organic impotence is a disorder that persists for several months to several years and does not change due to partners or sexual activities including masturbation or desire for sex.  Men lose their morning erections and partial erections and over time are unable get an erection at all.  Vascular disease is the most common cause of organic impotence and Leriche’s syndrome of aortoiliac occlusion will result in loss of muscle mass and impotence.  Laboratory tests and a thorough evaluation needs to happen to determine if it is organic impotence over psychogenic erectile dysfunction to rule out the possibility of psychological or interpersonal factors.

It is important that men with erectile dysfunction see a doctor or urologist before seeking treatment in sex therapy or counseling to determine whether or not the origins are organic or psychogenic as the treatments for organic impotence will differ. Psychogenic impotence implies that there is a psychological connection which is affecting the body.  With this type of erectile dysfunction men benefit from clinical sexology and sex therapy  to talk about what is happening, discuss any trauma that may have occurred and gain tools to reconnect with healthy and pleasurable sexual desire.  Organic impotence may need medical treatment and may not respond to therapy but rather, must be dealt with as part of a larger medical issue.  

 

SquirtGasms! Female Ejaculation Workshop @the Armory Studios, San Francisco May 14th 7-9pm

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$30 single

$50 couple

REGISTER HERE: SquirtGasms!

Are you excited to learn about Female Ejaculation?

Do you need some tips and techniques to get started?

Does the prospect of having a more expanded orgasm through G-Spot Stimulation sound awesome?

Then join Anya de Montigny, Sex Educator and Coach for this fun and engaging Presentation with LIVE DEMO & Hands-On Lab!

We will:
– Discuss the myths and truths of the female ejaculate liquid and answer the question, “is it pee?”
– Learn important anatomy of the vagina including G-spot, Skene’s glands and the PC muscles.
– Discuss toys and techniques to encourage Female Ejaculation.
– Have a chance to practice in the Hands-On Lab and be coached by Anya.

– Take home fun exercises to get started right away.

*This workshop is for Individuals & Couples ~ in order to stay for the Hands-On Lab you must come with a partner to practice with, otherwise you are welcome to attend the presentation & Live Demo.*

Testimonial about public and private SquirtGasms! Workshops:

“My partner and I took Anya’s class. Online tutorials just didn’t cut it. Anya approached the subject with a really impressive academic rigor, while simultaneously making sure the context was accessible. She also encouraged questions, so I really got to geek out on some super interesting biological stuff. She maintains a light-heartedness and warmth through the class, which really helps put shy people like me at ease in a group setting. The live demo was invaluable, and the fact that I actually got to practice on a real person really cemented the information we were given at the beginning of the class. I am looking forward to someday soon having a private session with her and my partner!” ~ Melanie F.

“After searching online and seeing Anya’s seminars, and checking her references with other businesses, we were excited to set up a meeting with Anya. We had tried for a very long time to achieve a new experience in my orgasms. After spending hundreds of dollars on different sex toys to help us, none of them worked to cause the squirt orgasm. We booked our trip to fly to San Francisco and meet with Anya and were excited for our next step. Our goal in setting up a private session with Anya was to have the one on one walk thru and help us see what we were doing wrong or right. She meet us privately and gave us the intimate and knowledgeable information that we needed. Within a week after we left San Francisco, I was able to achieve our goal. Now it seems very easy to achieve. Only through your very detailed instructions have I been able to understand and make this happen. My husband and I are very grateful to you. He has been thrilled about this, as I am. We think its wonderful that Anya is able to help people is such a rewarding way, we are forever grateful.” Anonymous From Texas